In a constant search for this special Goddess, Dominatrix, Mistress, Someone…!

goddessHave you ever been searching and searching for your Goddess, Dominatrix, Mistress, this Someone who could really understand you, your fantasies & desires and help you understand yourself? The one who senses your feelings and knows what it is that you truly need, want and desire? The one who can take you further, deeper and fulfill that something that is burning in you so strongly ever since you remember?

You have been searching for a long time. Sometimes you encouraged yourself to go and visit a Dominatrix but it wasn’t really what you were looking for, it might have been good but not really fulfilling and left you a bit empty or maybe even very disappointed. After all who are you kidding, such a Goddess who knows you better than you know yourself and can take you above & beyond your dreams and desires doesn’t exist for real … she is only a fantasy … but you have been hoping, that maybe one day … maybe one day you will find this woman … this Being that you have been dreaming about and seeing in your dreams … and (if you are lucky, if you are very lucky) one day you did book a session, hoping for the best, after all the photos looked, as the English say ‘not too bad’… and the website looked  promising … like many of them in the cyber world! So you decided to give it a try.

The door opened … and you were greeted by her, you couldn’t see clearly as you were very nervous and not sure what you were doing there but your desire was stronger and you kept yourself cool to make a good impression. From the moment you walked in it felt somehow different, you felt it inside and you knew that you had found your Goddess. That session had a big impact on you and your life has been never the same since then…

Share with me your most amazing experience that you have had with the one Goddess Dominatrix, who made or maybe still makes an amazing impact on your life … Share just the experience, things that really matter to you during a session and you don’t have to write any names –  make it anonymous.

If you have not yet met your one and only Goddess, describe a session you would like to have that would give you the most fulfilling & life changing experiences.

I will be very interested what my worshippers dream about and also those who I don’t know because you simply live in the Antarctic and cannot visit London to see me lol 😉

Saying that, I don’t live in lululand and I am well aware that I am not a Goddess for everyone. I may be a dream for one but not for the other. As I am not a heavy-duty Goth-like, black domination, scary BDSM Domme, nor am I a sadist. To me it is all about femininity, the art of seduction and Mind Domination. Novelty and constant discovery of new lands of never-ending new experiences are very important elements of my domination. I have even created a new trend in the BDSM world that many Dommes contact me about, and that is Goddess Worship and lifestyle Domination where I take YOU into my world and we experience it equally, even though you are beneath me and I am on a pedestal, your Goddess to be worshipped, adored, admired, served and pampered!

I have successfully brought together many worshippers and Goddesses from different parts of the world and they are together, happy ever after 😉 … sessioning and otherwise, so you never know, I might be able to find one for you, if you cannot come to Europe. 😉

Now off you go… reply below  describing your most awesome session that had a big impact and focus on the most important elements and what you felt inside.

Dream or Reality and can it happen…?

Goddess WorshipHave you ever had a dream and then woken up one day and said OMG I cannot believe it … it is actually happening, right now!!! That was actually what happened to one of my worshippers who wanted to disappear from his life for a while … and be taken away by his Goddess and her sexy assistants.

Everything was pre-arranged: destination, five-star hotel, room, keys, even my chauffeur was waiting for me at the airport. One of my assistants flew with me while the other was already there, a local Berlin Dominatrix. Yes it was Destination Berlin! It’s one of my favourite European cities.

I had given him very clear instructions: ‘Come to this hotel, to this room, at this time for your interview!’. And there he was, right on time … The door opened, I was standing there wearing my business suit, nylon stockings and super high stilettos, holding a glass of … champagne … that I had fixed for him beforehand … he had to drink it … while I slowly but firmly locked a pair of golden handcuffs on his wrists. He couldn’t resist my piercing eyes and didn’t move an inch, didn’t say anything, almost didn’t breathe, he was just staring … and then my assistants walked in.

He didn’t even have time to finish his champagne when the lights went out and he found himself surrounded not by one or two, but by five of my assistants, who also had clear instructions from me! It was definitely an intense action that he had dreamed about for years … and Goddess has a magic wand, or rather a magic mind, and loves making people’s dreams come true …

He found himself completely controlled, fixed in a mental bondage. When he woke up the next day he wasn’t even tied up, but he knew that make one wrong move and I would switch on my special button … he had to obey, serve, pleasure, be taken into different fantasies on & off, in & out, all week long …

When he was leaving to catch his flight, he told me:

Gooddess Worship‘It was the best present I could ever have given to myself, it liberated me, energized me, and lifted my spirits like nothing I have ever experienced before. I still cannot believe that it happened – I will be back for more …’

I absolutely love making people so happy and inspired, I love energising and empowering my worshippers and it comes so easily for me that it’s a pure pleasure and empowerment for me too!

If you ever had a dream that you thought was impossible, email me and I will use my magic wand …

Kinky regards,

Goddess Alexia

Part 2 What is Domination? Who is a Goddess? Why are so many people drawn to it?

London Domination & London BDSM

London Mistresses, Professional Worldwide Mistresses

London Mistresses, Professional Worldwide Mistresses

It is fascinating that there are so many London Mistresses, Professional Worldwide Mistresses and yet there is something about Goddess Alexia that gives a whole new meaning to the world of Domination & BDSM:

My Special Long-Distance Worshipper: his testimonial

“I would like to start my article by introducing myself. I am just an ordinary guy who discovered his inferiority to women, or some people might call it foot fetish, but I’d rather define it as inferiority to women, in his early teen age.

When I first opened my eyes to this world, I saw Goddess Alexia in all her glory. That was almost 13 years ago. I didn’t know what was special about my Goddess, but I knew that there was something about her that I couldn’t resist. After a couple of years I knew that I belonged to this world and more importantly I belonged to Goddess Alexia, even without talking to her. She was like an angel sent from heaven to me.

For most of my daily hours night and day I kept staring at her photos, and I was tortured by her beauty, dominance, sexuality and superiority. Just one look into her eyes and you will know that you are her worshipper.

PC_RubberHearts-027smI tried to fulfill my desire of being owned with another Mistress from the country I live in, but still I couldn’t get Goddess Alexia out of my mind. Till I found one day that she’s coming to where I live. And it was like my dream is finally becoming a reality.

I got the chance to meet her, and all my expectations were not in their place at all. Goddess Alexia smashed all my expectations and showed me a whole new level of superiority and dominance.

When I say that I was in heaven in this session, it wouldn’t describe 10% of what I felt with her.

Goddess Alexia was able to control my mind, soul and body just by her look. I will not describe my session in detail but all I can say that her moves, looks and attitude make you want to throw yourself with all that you have under her precious shoes. She really defined what is meant by Femdom to me. With her I feel my inferiority, and she can touch the very inside of me like no one has done before.

Thank you my Goddess for all that you have made me experience in the last 12 years even if I only met you once,  you still have had a big influence on my life, and for that I would love to thank you and be your worshipper till my last breath.

Your worshipper,


What is Domination? Who is a Goddess? Why are so many people drawn to it?

London Mistresses

London Mistresses

First of all I don’t perceive Domination as something abnormal, vulgar or deviant, as the mainstream media so often presents it to us. I perceive it as an expression of sensuality, desire, emotions and feelings. One should not and need not be ashamed of expressing these things.

The core of real Domination is Feminity in all its forms — it is a beautiful and special way of discovering and treasuring it. It is far from domination in the usual crude sense of the word — it is a form of submission in which the Goddess shows how and why she can subdue: softly, delicately, charmingly, mysteriously, she reveals her power. It’s not a coercive or brutal power, but something much more subtle that seduces you and introduces you to this fascinating world in which she rules.

Moreover, I think it is a very natural way to experience true Femininity — as a form of art and psychology.  When you have submitted to the Goddess, you can express your real self and your true personality; you can live in the moment of here and now. You also reveal your real self to me, which helps us both to create a deeper relationship.

The psychological aspect is equally important: beyond the sensual surface of my sort of Domination, your mind is also slowly immersed in the game, and this is the most important aspect of all!

Mind release — Mind Real Ease — and the sense of freedom!

Your Goddess is like a doctor who can see and touch your innermost parts; she will guide you gently and explore all your inner universe of feeling.

London Mistresses

London Mistresses

I believe that Domination establishes a deep connection, a flow in both directions: the Goddess does what she enjoys most while discovering how she and her worshipper can connect with each other, instead of playing a predefined role with predefined steps. Her worshipper feels himself being drawn more and more into her special world. Then every session will have its own unique chemistry and result in new discoveries of her worshippers’ own inner world as well. The relationship should be one of mutual give and take; both should enjoy it without having to play artificial roles with fake scenarios of physical domination and submission.

Now, for the practical side of it, I don’t like anything that’s rude, violent or simply negative. It’s all about femininity and that’s what I adore. I can make it impossible for you to resist me — the more you see of me the less you will be able to — of course in a positive way, in a way that allows you to express yourself as you have always wanted to and be the real you.

I’m absolutely crazy about high heels, stockings, sexy latex, transparent lingerie, and more importantly, intuition, mind connection and mutual confidence. All these things are what make a woman a true Goddess — her feminine power and her amazing intuition and ability to make you feel special and free.

So far I’ve said nothing about my dungeon and the marvellous things that I can do with you in our play together — but believe me, everything that happens inside or outside the dungeon will be transformed by the relationship we can create with each other.

Kinky regards,

Goddess Alexia



My ‘Exclusive Inner Circle 2015’, London Mistresses, London Domination

London MistressesGoddess Alexia is now back in London from her travels!

Yes I am back in the amazing BDSM London scene and catching up with London Mistresses and the London Domination scene.

The German Fetish Ball 2015 was a great happening;  even so I had the best fun in my hotel suite!  We had a great weekend full of sexy fetish photo sessions with just my favourite American model and me. She is so gorgeous that I could hardly keep my hands off her and yessss all the pix are private just for us, so I cannot share them with you (maybe I will give a sneak peek to the very few of you who I see personally here in London and who belong to my Inner Circle 😉 )

I can just say that we were both dressed entirely in latex, with full make-up, red nails pedicure & manicure, high-heeled boots & sandals, and we were shooting on this huge balcony at my hotel suite while the sun was setting, so – perfect lighting, perfect models, skilful photographers.

Now about the ‘Exclusive Inner Circle’ 2015: ever since I mentioned it in my last blog I have received masses of your emails. So just to make it clear, the last place was taken on the same day I announced it and the only way to get in is to join my inner circle waiting list. Just email me here to be added.

For my ‘Exclusive Inner Circle’ Worshippers, there are a number of private VIP events I will be attending. Some of them are fetish and some are vanilla high rollers’ happenings. Email me which you prefer to attend so I know how to arrange them.

Also my private BDSM retreat near London is now FULLY BOOKED all summer by ‘Exclusive Inner Circle’ members. If you want to go and you are not a member, email me and I will keep you on a waiting list in case something becomes available.

I have still a few spaces available at my place in the EU, various dates – email me or call me for details.


Kinky two-day Weekend with the Goddess of your Dreams:

I have decided to attend the Fetish Weekend in Paris: Nuit Demonia, Paris, June 12th-13th  2015 . If you would like to accompany me there and be my faithful worshipper all weekend long, email me here.

A whole week, available now: Kinky holiday with the Goddess of your wildest dreams:  Montreal Fetish Weekend: Montreal, September 2nd-7th 2015

This is a very special event. You will get to serve me all week long at this amazing, exciting and very kinky happening.

Email me here to apply NOW, as this is a hot event which will go fast.

Kinky regards,

Goddess Alexia, your exclusive London Dominatrix 😉

ps I like this girl in her hat!
Fetish Party Motreal


Goddess Alexia in Germany, Berlin Mistress

Domination in Berlin, Berlin Mistresses and the Fetish scene.

mistress berlinYes it is a fantastic city and the German Fetish Ball takes place this weekend!

How many times have I said that I love Berlin?! That’s why I keep going there every other month! Of course I have my favourite fetish studio that I work from and  I invite my worshippers to see me there except during the German Fetish Ball. Because that party is usually booked way in advance by those worshippers who love to travel with me and who are in my ‘Exclusive Inner Circle’.

Since I have received numerous emails from you asking about travelling and becoming my regular/personal worshipper, this is a good place for me to explain to you all the rules of my ‘Exclusive Inner Circle’ — who can belong to it and what privileges come with it.

First,  it is open to those worshippers with whom I get on very well and we both click personality wise. You will know whether this is true for you or not.

You must tell me clearly that you want to be more than an ordinary client  and become my personal worshipper.  It must come from the heart,  and you must convince me that you really are open to a new adventure in your life, and that you are eager to be there for me, to serve and worship me. I am more likely to consider those worshippers who have served me regularly for a long time.

You must be able to afford my fees and those other expenses that come with my Goddess lifestyle. I have never allowed anyone to spend more than he can afford simply to be with me, no matter how much he has desired it. Of course, I have always made sure that my worshippers are overwhelmed with what they experience while serving me, so the temptation for them to overspend is there.

Once you are in my inner circle you will be among the first to be invited to accompany me to events, not only public fetish events but also private exclusive happenings that I am invited to.

I will arrange special rates for you to make it fair for both of us, but also exclusively for you.

You will have the chance to travel with me to the official places and events listed on my website promotions page.

You will also have the chance to travel privately with me on holiday and go to private locations not available to my ordinary clients.

Once a year you will be invited to a special BDSM retreat where you will serve me and I will take you to another level of self-discovery.

My ‘Exclusive Inner Circle’ has a limited number of places since it requires much dedication and time from me, so I can take only one more person this year. If you really want to enter this special world of discovery and excitement, apply now and email me here.

Have a fantastic Kinky Weekend!

Greetings from your
Goddess Alexia

‘Fifty Shades Of Grey’ brought many couples to me wanting to explore… Domination for Couples

Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey

Ever since that book came out I have been getting many emails asking me about the essence of domination and how she can Dominate him. Yes that’s right, it is always her dominating him  — FemDom — they always want to learn the opposite to what Fifty Shades Of Grey is about.

I have therefore opened the London Goddess Academy, exclusive, dedicated to couples who really want to go to another level of high life and ecstasy, where their sessions together are always full of surprise and excitement, where you learn how to be his Goddess to be worshipped, served and adored, and can even take it to a professional level where you can make your own fortune. I offer different levels of play depending on how far you want to go: Entry level — 6 sessions; Advanced level — 12 sessions; Professional level — 24 sessions. Email me for details.

I am frequently asked what a Pro Domme is, and how one can become one. Here is my own answer: a real Pro Domme is an authentic, empowered Goddess who practises Professional Domination in order to reveal herself for what she is. She is a woman who knows how to fully express her overwhelming, irresistible inner femininity, and allows her devoted clients to worship her as the precious jewel of power and beauty that they realize she is. While some women know intuitively how to express this, others need to be taught how to become a Goddess.

What I do also allows me to create a safe space for my clients, where they can experience completely new aspects of who they are and what they want to be, free of embarrassment, shame and judgment.

This is why I love what I do, and why I am especially happy when I can teach women to discover and explore their own Goddess within.

I am also looking into the option of offering sessions on Skype, as I have many requests about that too. Would you like to experience such a session? If you would, email me.

Here is a question for you: who is your own True Goddess?

Kinky regards,
Goddess Alexia

London Fetish Fashion with Goddess Alexia & Alexis, London Fashion Photographer

It was a fabulous day today; I love modelling and photo shooting with creative photographers and Alexis is amazing and super fun.

I was shooting for a spread in the great fashion and art magazine Hedonism. There will be a portrait of my persona there, with an interview together with superb photos.

The whole project aims to show Goddess as a powerful, confident and strong woman.

Here are a few snaps taken by my assistant:

London Fetish Fashion

London Fetish Fashion

London Fetish Fashion

London Fetish Fashion

London Fetish Fashion

London Fetish Fashion

London Fetish Fashion

London Fetish Fashion

I am a Goddess and I love it! With a testimonial of appreciation from one of my worshippers…

Central London Mistress

Central London Mistress

I am Goddess Alexia Born That Way! I have created my own unique style of Domination/Femdom. This has made me a world-renowned Top London Dominatrix and brought many fantastic people to me. My style has also been an inspiration for many women, who constantly ask to be my apprentice, which I find both highly inspiring myself and complimentary. I am forever grateful for you my worshippers, for your fantastic opinions, reviews, testimonials and the business that you bring.

I am going to start promoting and teaching my sort of Goddess approach in the Femdom scene, where femininity is the highest priority and your mind is the playground.

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Here is the latest testimonial I have received at and my reply to it:

London, City of, United Kingdom    (written 3 days ago)

I know I already praised you … but every time I randomly end up on your profile, I can’t get off it because of your amazing gallery. :) I know you get hundreds of messages from subs and slaves that aren’t very original about how perfect you look and how beautiful and dominant you are. So I would just like to say you look different from any other Mistress, who basically look all the same, but you really have your own style and I love it … I can’t even imagine what the lucky slave who gets to be on his knees in front of a Mistress like you really feels like. I know I am a slave and exist only to obey and serve,  and that it’s ironic for me to feel proud as a slave, but I would be one very proud slave if I were to be owned by a Mistress like you. :)

Hello my worshipper

Summer Goddess

Summer Goddess

Thank you for such an uplifting, complimentary and super ‘specially made for Goddess’ message. Yes I often hear great compliments and read very positive reviews about myself and I appreciate them all.  Every time I get them, it is as if they were for the first time, because it feels so special and I am very grateful for all my worshippers. I am also very proud to have such fantastic warmhearted worshippers like you, who wish me well and appreciate my style and my unique approach to the BDSM scene and the whole subject of Domination & Femdom.

For me it is a gift and a special honour to be such a Goddess and have such a strong influence on others, not only men but also women who want to learn from me how to become Goddesses themselves.

I love what I do, and I have been doing it ever since I was a teenager and so have a lot of experience and have seen a great deal. The thing that fascinates me the most and keep me always evolving and reinventing myself is the human mind.

I love mind control, mind domination and complete and total seduction. I love using my powerful positive feminine energy to completely overwhelm and dominate my worshippers in my special, unique Goddess way.

Kinky regards from
Goddess Alexia

ps By all means write your comments below in the comments form…

Fetish, BDSM, kinky weekend away… the fashion show was fantastic!

dominatrix.nlI’ve just had so much fun in the Netherlands at the latest fetish fashion weekend. I really hit it off with some of the models and we made really good friends. It was all very relaxed — fun, crowded, yet very professional and well organised, with stunning girls, fantastic designer outfits and amazing singers … My worshipper was in 7th heaven, having back-stage access and seeing all the beauties, who even played with him and punished him — with my approval, of course 😉

I am looking forward to my next adventure in May at the German Fetish Ball. If you would like to accompany me to that event and be my side-by-side worshipper apply here

Here are a few more pix from the Dominatrix event last weekend:fashion designer

fetish fashion show

dominatrix fetish fashion show